It's easy to fall to playing the victim when your life takes a plunge for worse. Being the victim feels bad and we think we don't want to feel this way. But as crazy and incomprehensible as it may sound we get false rewards from doing so, even if we don't consciously realise it. What rewards … Continue reading The Victim and the Protagonist
"Comfort zone is a beautiful place but nothing ever grows there.” We hate to feel fear but fear keeps us comfortable, as difficult as it may seem to believe. There is comfort in the familiarity of fear, really it is the unknown that scares us. Our minds are very good at thinking up possible what … Continue reading Comfort Zone.
For a lot of people, at some point in their lives, they find themselves living a life they don't want. It feels like they're living a lie and it is easy to fall into hopelessness. People become discouraged and disheartened by the present, not being able to see beyond the current situation they're in and believing … Continue reading Means to an End.
Positive thinking is often criticized for being unrealistic and detrimental to any real progress. It is thought to be wishful thinking, foolish optimism. But it is by no means foolish but an important tool that enables us to create a life of gratitude, happiness and success. I like to think of positivity as learned … Continue reading Positivity or Foolish Optimism
The real Up balloon Belief in yourself is the most important thing to achieve success. If we believe that we can do something, we may or may not be able to do it but if we believe we can't do something, then we definitely can't do it. Everything your mind believes, you will conceive. Our … Continue reading Believing is Succeeding
In life there are times other people do things that make us feel angry or upset, angry. These situations make us feel bad about the situation, the other person, ourselves or all three. And it is especially difficult to know what to do, how we should feel in these situations because it does not just involve … Continue reading Reactions
Often we withhold our emotions and don't take any action in fear that they will produce some unwanted consequence. When we fear the unknown; we are put into inaction, we are paralysed - stagnant in our pain. We would rather be in this situation than face the consequence of us taking action; even though it … Continue reading Fear, Power.